The tendency to despair - I am cold, and I have not managed to do the shopping I intended - i went on a useless diversion to Victoria, freezing the soles of my feet into solid blocks through my too thin shoes, and the shop I was looking for was closed. If only I had gone there yesterday when I felt I should have... If only... Still no shoes, and I perceive that I have missed my chance (the chance I had yesterday) to get the bargains at the sales... Iet myself down in some subtle but profound way, by taking the easy way out, and now...
I can feel the temptation to despair. It is just like the time when I was meditating and I kept getting impatient with the slow, arduous process of re-learning what I had already learnt, going back to ground zero, and every time my mind would rebel, preferring to sink into angry despair than to accept the long patient slog. For such a small thing - some mistake I made, some shopping I missed, some pair of shoes I feel hopeless for not having, I'm ready to allow despair, to say 'come on in'
but today I see this in time to stop it, or put my hand up and say, wait a minute. Let's talk through this one. A toughie - a day of Saturday shopping ahead of me, a little daunting, but a job to be done. This is optimism, surely. When the mind wants to despair and you decide to say, well - what if I get on with it and just get the job done? What I pretend there is no choice, because there really isn't? It reminds me of the sign I saw posted up on that toilet in the desert in California: "Forgiveness: giving up all hope of a better past"
What makes us despair? What things trigger this feeling? day to day; what makes us slouch, reach for the remote control, grab the chocolate bar...give up? That's what I'm interested in. Today anyway.. I'm sitting in Pret a MAnger in Victoria, waiting for a journalist from Scotland to call me up about my book, he's from the Big Issue. I feel in tune with that
When I write this kind of stuff I can hear the pained, martyrish tone in my head, it's amazing!
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